Shutdowns

Overview

A shutdown is the quieter cousin of a meltdown — the nervous system overwhelmed, but turning inward. The person may stop speaking, freeze, hide or become unresponsive. Because shutdowns are less disruptive, they are often missed.

Key points to understand

Signs: going non-verbal, blank stare, hiding under blankets, sudden sleep, monosyllabic responses.
Shutdowns are just as exhausting and distressing as meltdowns.
Children who shut down in school may be labelled 'lazy' or 'disengaged'.
Repeated shutdowns are a warning sign for burnout.

Practical strategies that help

Lower demand, lighting and noise immediately.
Offer non-verbal options (point, write, type).
Don't insist on eye contact or verbal response.
Build in regular low-demand recovery time.

Common challenges to be aware of

Shutdowns can be mistaken for defiance or rudeness.
Long-term repeated shutdowns can lead to autistic burnout.

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