Overview
Teenage years bring identity, hormones, exam pressure and growing social complexity — all amplified for autistic young people. Many are diagnosed for the first time in secondary school.
Key points to understand
- Common signs: sudden school refusal, masking burnout, increased meltdowns, anxiety, depression, self-harm risk.
- Special interests may shift to deeper, more solitary pursuits.
- Sleep, eating and screen-time challenges often peak.
- Identity questions (gender, sexuality, neurotype) are common and valid.
Practical strategies that help
- Involve the teenager in their own assessment and care plan.
- Reduce demands during exam periods; use access arrangements.
- Connect with peer support (Ambitious about Autism Youth Patrons, NAS Branches).
Common challenges to be aware of
- Mental health services (CAMHS) are stretched; private therapists with autism experience can help.
- Transition to adult services at 18 needs to be planned at 16.
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