Getting recognised in the UK is patchy. Some areas embrace it, others don''t. Here''s how to navigate.
Step 1: Autism assessment
- is a profile of autism
- Without an autism diagnosis, services rarely engage with
- Ask for referral
- Take notes, videos and examples that show demand avoidance specifically
Step 2: Ask for the profile to be named
- Some assessors will write "autism with a demand-avoidant profile" or similar
- Others won''t use the term — but the descriptions in the report can still be in everything but name
Step 3: Education
- can describe needs even without the diagnostic label
- Use the Society''s parent guide to push for autism-/-informed provision
- Section F should describe how support is delivered, not just what
Step 4: support
- Sleep clinic if applicable
- for sensory needs
- if severe anxiety (warning: many teams don''t understand )
- Private assessments may be needed if doesn''t engage
Step 5: Find your people
- Society UK
- Local parent support groups
- Other parents who get it
Benefits
children almost always meet criteria — significant supervision, care, communication and emotional support needs.
Source: Society UK.
