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When mutism comes with autism or anxiety

Many children with SM are also autistic. Here is what changes.

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Research suggests 30–40% of children with SM are also autistic. Many others have generalised anxiety, social anxiety or sensory processing differences.

Why this matters

  • Standard SM therapy (sliding in, small steps) still works, but pace needs to slow down
  • Sensory environment matters even more
  • Predictability and visual support become essential
  • Communication aids (AAC, written, picture cards) may help long-term, not just short-term

Signs of co-occurring autism

  • Mutism continues in many places, not just one
  • Difficulty with eye contact even at home
  • Restricted interests, routines, sensory needs
  • Social differences with peers at home
  • Difficulty understanding non-verbal cues

Get autism assessed too

SM and autism need separate assessments. Don''t let professionals assume one rules out the other.

When anxiety is dominant

  • General anxiety can fuel SM
  • CBT adapted for younger children
  • Family-based anxiety programmes
  • For severe cases, medication is sometimes considered (specialist only)

At school

Combine SM strategies with autism-friendly adjustments: predictable timetable, sensory-aware classroom, visual supports, low-demand transitions.

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